Monday, 27 May 2019

27/5/19 ***Minimizing contact with smokers this Ramadan

I managed to evade my Oldest Friends Troika because of smoking temptation.

I am thinking of axing Konek and Amoi entirely because they didn't set the priority to meet for the past 2 Ramadans.  Same problem this year.

That leave BJ and RR who had been consistent for the past 15 years.

The smaller the better.

Even Els I think I want to just Touch and Go.

I can't be entertaining a nonreciprocal relationship.

It takes 2.

As I said, the players play their own game by applying their rules but using my cards.  In that sense Els falls in this category.

With Konek and Amoi, they are not interested in playing.  It was me who had been wanting to meet.  They always have other matters as their priorities.  Getting together among us three is the last priority in case by any chance there is nothing else on their schedules.

Naturally between them there is a limited possibility for both to be available on the same day.  What happened last year; only Konek and I met.

So this year I'm not going to persistently push.  If by this year there is no gathering, then I will breakaway.  I will not even answer their calls.  It's time I stop trying to get them together.

This is a matter of poor time management on their part.  It's a waste of time.

Brb... Going out...

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