Allow me to enlighten you with this very powerful idea. Once you understand this you will see your world *wi[ll] a new light.
* External intervention.
Suppose you are standing on the left side of a wall holding an apple. As you walk along side the wall walking to the right you start eating the apple. By the time you reach the right side of the wall the apple is fully eaten. Therefore we say, while you are at the left there is apple and when you reach the right, there is no apple.
Right in the middle of the movement, you will discover the situation of both apple and no apple exist. This is a 50-50 point of apple and no apple existence. You notice along the way, there is a degree of this occurrence as you move from left to right: It is not an absolute but it is a range of how from existence the apple vanishes to become no apple.
This is the foundation of Fuzzy Thinking. The 50-50 midpoint is called The Point of Paradox. Those who strive in paradox will be very successful in life because they have a wider range of choices to choose from.
Take the example of a light switch. It is either ON or OFF. Only two options. This is what we called Absolute Thinking. Very rigid. A Fuzzy Thinker is like a light dimmer with a rheostat. With a dimmer, you have a wide degree of brightness because you are working with a range.
One example of this paradox is you can be One and you can be Many. Another example is we are within God and God is within us. That is if we take it at the superlative level. On a personal level, a Fuzzy thinker can be both dead and alive LOL:
The application is abound. As a fuzzy thinker I am both detached and committed. I can have a loose tight relationship with you for example. We are together and yet you are as free as a bird. There is no ownership here.
Yet I am committed to help you grow to your fullest potential as in any relationship that is.
Now, you know there are many paths I can take towards no apple. The easiest way is to not have a relationship at all. But what good is that? I sincerely love you. May not be as lovers do but still it is a very pleasant feeling. It is empowering.
At the same time I realize you are entitled to have a romance. The conventional thinking is either you have the apple or no apple; the Absolute Thinking. That's not how a Fuzzy Thinker thinks. Between apple and no apple there is a Point of Paradox; go ahead and have a romance but we can still love each others as kindred spirits.
I am not here to rule your world. I am here to enrich it. Just like you had enriched my days with your laughter and joy, I hope I can enrich you with my feelings that I have for you. To limit yourself to love only a few who still have the potential to hurt you is pretty much living in scarcity. You are capable of giving. So give in abundance my darling.
Sine cera.
SJ
28/5/19
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@elsDines Hi baby, I wrote you a email. Just a thought... https://conversationwithsarah2019.blogspot.com/2019/05/28519-welcome-to-world-of-fuzzy-thinking.html …
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